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 Finding and Keeping LOVE - Preventing Extramarital Affairs 
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Finding and Keeping LOVE - Preventing Extramarital Affairs
by: Georgette Pauls



In talking with people about their romantic relationships we have gradually realized that many couples or potential couples are not taking time for love!

Many marriages and relationships are dying of neglect.

Why?

People are simply NOT making their love relationships a priority in their lives.

Relationships cannot survive in a vacuum.

What happens to couples in this kind of situation? Infidelity, loneliness, and divorce are often directly related to the myriad of distractions in everyday life.

We, all of us, are spending very little time with our significant other. So, give it some thought, what are you spending time doing instead of spending time with your significant other?

Most of us are NOT having fun doing all the stuff that distracts us from the most important relationships in our lives.

Here are some of the bad distractions we all struggle with.

1. Your boss, the most demanding human you know, wants too much of your time. ALL your time wouldn’t be enough for him or her.

2. Your mother (father, neighbor, friend, etc), who’s bored and lonely and wants you to keep them entertained.

3. Perky, the volunteer coordinator, who wants you to work hard FOR FREE to make them look good!

4. Housekeeping on your own space that takes too much time if you do it right.

5. Shopping for stuff that you don’t really need, can’t store, and can’t pay for without dipping into credit cards and your future financial health

6. Your car in which you spend hours a day commuting and/or hauling kids to every activity known to compulsive parents.

7. Your home, which is a brand new McMansion an hour or more commute from your work.

Go back and look at the list again. All of these things involve choices we can make to allow ourselves time to have relationships that are better and more rewarding. And it’s not just romantic choices. It can be all our relationships.

But…it’s all your choice. So…

Make better choices. You know, the old saying, “Think outside the box”? Well, do it!

Good loving IS worth it!

Good relationships take time and attention.

1. Work at home. If you are available, just at hand (so to speak), it’s good for your relationship.

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